And ask any doctor if what they did is the very best for their kid. The stress, the lack of bonding, the (I assume by 100+ hours a week) bottle feeding from the

And ask any doctor if what they did is the very best for their kid. The stress, the lack of bonding, the (I assume by 100+ hours a week) bottle feeding from the first few days. If you can do it, sure, if you can have it all (as in, do the best for your career and the best for your newborn), I have my doubts. Pretty sure the single mothers with two jobs also do it, doesn't mean it is the optimal way to have a child. ps: won't edit the parent post, but by exceptions I meant outliers... sorry, not native speaker.