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The idea that resilience can be learned also implies that resilience can be spread through social groups -- if you spend more time around resilient people who v
by bonniemuffin 11y ago
The idea that resilience can be learned also implies that resilience can be spread through social groups -- if you spend more time around resilient people who view potentially traumatic events in a more positive light, it may lead you to do the same.
I certainly found this to be true after hurricane katrina; talking to people who had been through other large-scale disasters helped me re-frame the events as a learning experience, and I've subsequently found myself more resilient in the face of other (unrelated) negative events in my life.
- bobbles 11y agoYou can even see it in babies/toddlers when they fall over or something and look straight to the parents to see what their reaction should be. Fretting leads to bawling and encouragement to get back up helps them just get one with whatever
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