I don't have much to add to the conversation, but I would just like to explicitly point out (aside from upvoting) that you and the other commenter, ashark, have

I don't have much to add to the conversation, but I would just like to explicitly point out (aside from upvoting) that you and the other commenter, ashark, have vocalized and concretized a lot of nebulous and vague feelings I've been having for many years. I appreciate both of your guy's suggestions as well. Thanks for the wisdom.