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The reason for that way of phrasing is because it appeals to ego. If you want someone to do something, particularly someone with a known ego, then this is an ef
by lilbobbytables 11y ago
The reason for that way of phrasing is because it appeals to ego. If you want someone to do something, particularly someone with a known ego, then this is an effective way to get them to listen to you and not dismiss you.
Of course, there's a fine line between stroking and patronizing, though.
- qb45 11y agoNo, it's a trap. It works until you get to those with really big egos who take pride in dismantling such tricks and gaming others by pretending to fall for their games. These need higher levels of gaming. But in the end, if you truly think that something is a good idea for everyone involved, just explain why.