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Downvoted. Your point may not be ignorant, but it certainly seems that way given the unnecessarily violent language.

by foxylad 11y ago

solipsism 11y ago
His/her words are too naughty to be tolerated? They offend you to such a degree that you can't just ignore them? Come on now.
- foxylad 11y ago
  It's more that they imply the poster is really angry. If you saw two speakers in the street, one arguing reasonably and the other swearing his head off, I think most people would place less value on the ranter.
  - samstave 11y ago
    Uh... Maybe you dont talk to your friends too often... You should see me with many many of my friends - dont imply anger where there is none, as we often get in "mock heated arguements" with smiles on our face. I love you.
    - dang 11y ago
      It makes sense to talk that way to your friends, because you're already friends and there are stronger bonds holding you together. That makes shredding each other fun, because everyone knows it's in jest. A large semi-anonymous internet forum like HN is at the opposite extreme. We're almost all strangers and near-strangers. The community has low cohesion, so the same behavior, with the same good intention, does harm. You know how rugby players are famous for beating the shit out of each other on the pitch, then going out drinking after the game? I always envied those guys that experience. It works because they have high cohesion. They also know not to walk up to a stranger, smack them onto the pavement, and expect to be bought a beer later. You need to adjust for context.
      - samstave 11y ago
        Apparently, sadly, I feel a much higher sense of cohesion with the HN community than others do.
        dang 11y ago
        That makes sense, and yeah that is kind of sad. But HN is what it is. It would be wonderful if the community could evolve to become more cohesive but that's a slow process.
ajmurmann 11y ago
If you have problems with "violent language" then that shouldn't lead to valuable content being hidden from others who don't have mental issues triggered by words they fifth like.
oldmanjay 11y ago
Vulgarity equates to violence? What a brave new world!

Downvoted. Your point may not be ignorant, but it certainly seems that way given the unnecessarily violent language.

by foxylad 11y ago

Downvoted. Your point may not be ignorant, but it certainly seems that way given the unnecessarily violent language.

His/her words are too naughty to be tolerated? They offend you to such a degree that you can't just ignore them? Come on now.

foxylad 11y ago
It's more that they imply the poster is really angry. If you saw two speakers in the street, one arguing reasonably and the other swearing his head off, I think most people would place less value on the ranter.
- samstave 11y ago
  Uh... Maybe you dont talk to your friends too often... You should see me with many many of my friends - dont imply anger where there is none, as we often get in "mock heated arguements" with smiles on our face. I love you.
  - dang 11y ago
    It makes sense to talk that way to your friends, because you're already friends and there are stronger bonds holding you together. That makes shredding each other fun, because everyone knows it's in jest. A large semi-anonymous internet forum like HN is at the opposite extreme. We're almost all strangers and near-strangers. The community has low cohesion, so the same behavior, with the same good intention, does harm. You know how rugby players are famous for beating the shit out of each other on the pitch, then going out drinking after the game? I always envied those guys that experience. It works because they have high cohesion. They also know not to walk up to a stranger, smack them onto the pavement, and expect to be bought a beer later. You need to adjust for context.
    - samstave 11y ago
      Apparently, sadly, I feel a much higher sense of cohesion with the HN community than others do.
      - dang 11y ago
        That makes sense, and yeah that is kind of sad. But HN is what it is. It would be wonderful if the community could evolve to become more cohesive but that's a slow process.

ajmurmann 11y ago

If you have problems with "violent language" then that shouldn't lead to valuable content being hidden from others who don't have mental issues triggered by words they fifth like.

oldmanjay 11y ago

Vulgarity equates to violence? What a brave new world!