The point of failing is to aim for failure by always challenging yourself and expecting that you will "fail" and learn from said failure. The reason why this is

The point of failing is to aim for failure by always challenging yourself and expecting that you will "fail" and learn from said failure. The reason why this isn't as bad as it sounds is because quite often when we push ourselves for failure we find that we really succeeded at every goal we had. Failure stops looking personal and starts looking like feedback, like variables in an equation that you're trying to reverse engineer. Don't avoid failure is the theme. Embrace it and use it in the feedback system that is your learning process to fine tune your velocity towards your goals.