Sure, i understand. I meant my parent is complaining that clearly the women can appeal because of gender bias issues affecting them more heavily than men, as if

Sure, i understand. I meant my parent is complaining that clearly the women can appeal because of gender bias issues affecting them more heavily than men, as if that magically would make it okay. Instead, the thing that seems "okay" on that point would be "let the men appeal too" (IE my parent is wrong no matter what!)