I'm more inclined to believe unfit parents are unfit because they care more about themselves then their children. Their worried about their own problems and not

I'm more inclined to believe unfit parents are unfit because they care more about themselves then their children. Their worried about their own problems and not introspectively critiquing their own parenting... Edit: totally misread your comment, yup I agree. I think I just took the extreme of what you originally said (that unfit parents are rare), my bad.