Maybe not the perfect solution, but I created a bot that notifies me when "a lot" of activity occurs on my friends Rocket.chat server. Basically when more than

Maybe not the perfect solution, but I created a bot that notifies me when "a lot" of activity occurs on my friends Rocket.chat server. Basically when more than 3 people write more than 5 messages each, pretty quickly. I've found that I rarely check it anymore since I'm always notified when something interesting is happening or when people specifically want to reach me; I'm no longer afraid I'll "miss out".