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I don't think you're hearing me. You took my message of how dealing with psychological issues is like poking at random in the dark, which's my way of saying th
by alexashka 11y ago
I don't think you're hearing me.
You took my message of how dealing with psychological issues is like poking at random in the dark, which's my way of saying these things are very tricky, and turned it into how I'm marginalizing people with difficulties.
I don't know if you yourself are aware but I'll point it out for others - some people will hear 10 paragraphs of encouragement, find 1 sentence that they have a mild reaction to and only focus on that.
I've done it myself when I was younger (and nowadays too every now and again :)) - I'd come into a discussion emotionally charged and sure enough, whatever mild version of not seeing eye to eye popped up, I was there to get upset about it.
I was perpetually upset with how 'everyone else is dumb' at the time. In reality, I was just young and lacked perspective, which made me quite annoying to be around, which resulted in difficulties with making friends, and on and on.
Which's my way of saying hey, I'm actually well versed in difficulties or else I wouldn't be talking about them.
One tip I'd give that I wish someone gave me (they probably did and I didn't listen :)) is to cease thinking others ought to act a certain way. They don't have to anything and they won't. You have to adjust if you don't want to live the rest of your life getting upset at others. The world isn't going to adjust for you, unless you can isolate yourself into a bubble where people act a way you deem acceptable and never leave.
That's usually people just being alone, which sucks if you're being honest with yourself.
- autoreleasepool 11y ago> I don't think you're hearing me. ...followed by a 4 paragraph ad hominem (I'm young and lonely is your implication?) explaining why you think this. Wouldn't it have been more productive to reiterate what you think I missed? Because I still have no clue what you're talking about.