I think that works some but for me it has been messier than that. I think self reflection and friendly peer feedback helps. Also some personality assessments

I think that works some but for me it has been messier than that. I think self reflection and friendly peer feedback helps. Also some personality assessments help. I have found that "Strengths Finder" has helped me in my career find a place that is satisfying and where I can be extremely competent. As a ADHD with Dyslexia I had to slog through the boredom of the growing my skills till I was competent in programming. I also try to see if I am in the flow with hobbies or work, But being competent enough to be in the flow takes a lot of skills before you get there. I have two girls that seem to understand well what their are meant to do both for hobbies and work. We practiced a lot of self-reflection with them when they were growing up and both have strong feedback loops with people they trust. But it is messy. Maybe that is what we are meant to do. That is find out what we are meant to do. Kind-of meta.