But I have asked myself, as have others, and came to conclusions that I've shared and that you've never addressed. You're quite adept at providing non-answers,

But I have asked myself, as have others, and came to conclusions that I've shared and that you've never addressed. You're quite adept at providing non-answers, and I do believe you when you say you feel misunderstood. I've read more of your comments and your submissions, and feel that I understand you even more than you're willing to give credit for. And there's the rub: you have been unable to give that credit. You've been given insights, raw honesty, carefully considered and thoughtful replies, and to each you've carefully and artfully worded a response that almost seems to show the same considered sympathetic thoughtfulness you are seeking from others. I don't know if it was a particular incident or if the particular way you perceive the world and how it perceives you is due to literal differences in your wiring, but I fear that you will find yourself butting up against the same walls every time you choose to engage in this dialog. It's not because I or the others responding are being recalcitrant, it's because you do not seem to be able to participate in that step beyond turn-taking: perspective-taking. I don't mean any disrespect, and if you care to read my past comments you will learn that I am sincere when I share the perception I have about you. I feel, for others reading, the need to disclaim more overtly that I do not share this perception in any derogatory way, and it comes from a place of understanding. My perception is that your difficulty with placing yourself in the mind of others, or your challenges with understanding why on earth people don't think the same thing you do... Well, both are very much the kinds of issues that those, like my son, on the autism spectrum have. I'd very much like to chat with you. Drop me a line at my username at gmail dot com if you feel there is something to what I've said.