I got my start in the 90's and there has always been a bit of arrogance in programming and IT. Saturday night live used to have "The IT Guy" who was a rude, arr

I got my start in the 90's and there has always been a bit of arrogance in programming and IT. Saturday night live used to have "The IT Guy" who was a rude, arrogant support engineer. I write it off a lot of times as social awkwardness - which sometimes comes off as rudeness.