> Yet you instantly have to recognise that you just blamed the victim for not being more assertive Seriously? There's a difference between assigning blame and

> Yet you instantly have to recognise that you just blamed the victim for not being more assertive Seriously? There's a difference between assigning blame and saying what could be done better. If I tell you that you should maybe next time lock your car after it was stolen, I still believe that the actual thieves are to blame.