If I assumed everyone at work was uncomfortable with everything I might say, then I would be the most boring coworker ever. This isn't an absolute kind of issu

If I assumed everyone at work was uncomfortable with everything I might say, then I would be the most boring coworker ever. This isn't an absolute kind of issue. If instead you meant "assume that everybody is uncomfortable with everything [approaching any kind of sexual tone]", then that's more realistic but simultaneously introduces a lot more gray area.