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> You should spend less time condemning other people and more time reading what they wrote. You could spend less time assuming I didn't read everything. The a
by mbrutsch 11y ago
> You should spend less time condemning other people and more time reading what they wrote.
You could spend less time assuming I didn't read everything. The attitude of "saying she should stand up for herself, at least once, before going to HR" is hardly "condemning".
- EliRivers 11y agoThe attitude of "saying she should stand up for herself, at least once, before going to HR" is hardly "condemning". That is not the attitude you have been espousing.  
- acdha 11y agoYour comments have been consistently dismissive and peppered with the vocabulary to match: referring to whingers, scare quoting “victims” or using phrases like "culture of victimhood”, tossing in snide references to Tumblr, etc. Again, it's great that your mother was able to successfully break a barrier. That doesn't mean everyone will also have success as easily using the same approach or that it's ever reasonable to dismiss someone else's life experience because you think they should have been more confrontational despite knowing so little about her situation and the power dynamics involved.
- mbrutsch 11y ago> That doesn't mean everyone will also have success as easily No, it doesn't, and I never said it did. But you can only succeed at the things you actually attempt.