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Right, but the familial bond isn't expressed by formal, ritualistic practice. That only creates a relationship of command.
by cholantesh 11y ago
Right, but the familial bond isn't expressed by formal, ritualistic practice. That only creates a relationship of command.
- zeveb 11y ago> Right, but the familial bond isn't expressed by formal, ritualistic practice. Seems like human society has for millennia worked by having formal rituals, and it's bound people together pretty well. I'm more than a little cautious about throwing all that out. > That only creates a relationship of command. What's wrong with that? A 'relationship of command' is exactly what the relationship between a parent and a three-year-old must be: when the parent shouts, 'don't touch that stove!' the kid must immediately shrink back; there's no time for inner reflection or external debate on the merits and demerits of stove-touching. As the child grows, the relationship becomes less and less commanding, but a wise adult will always listen to his parents (because they really do have more experience) and a wise adult will not command his grown child except as a last resort (because it's the only thing with a chance of getting through).