The point isn't to put a huge amount of investment into finding someone - that's dating's job. The point is to quickly and efficiently schedule things that have

The point isn't to put a huge amount of investment into finding someone - that's dating's job. The point is to quickly and efficiently schedule things that have a better chance of going well. There's an additional knock-on effect from being able to treat the dates lightly: if you're not a good match, you've lost something like ten minutes of scheduling and a half hour of date prep.