"Relentlessly prune bullshit, don't wait to do things that matter, and savor the time you have. That's what you do when life is short." As a 40+ parent, I savo

"Relentlessly prune bullshit, don't wait to do things that matter, and savor the time you have. That's what you do when life is short." As a 40+ parent, I savor the time with my children, parents and friends and I prune the bullshit in work down to minimum. The big problem: How do you choose what matters if nothing matters on the grand scale? Life is so short that at 40+ you realize you will never get to do even 0.1% of your bucket list. So which rock do you push uphill? In other words at 20-30 you can be adventurous and make mistakes. At 40+ you have promises to keep and miles to go before you sleep.