I really don't like the title since it's very link baity and suggestive that this would likely be a flame war topic on HN, but that said, her story and expecial

I really don't like the title since it's very link baity and suggestive that this would likely be a flame war topic on HN, but that said, her story and expecially the content after her story about restorative justice is very good and worth a read.