Background: I'm currently a 30-year-old male, who used OKCupid as a 21-23 year old male, before finding my wife on there. I think a lot of it has to do with wh

Background: I'm currently a 30-year-old male, who used OKCupid as a 21-23 year old male, before finding my wife on there. I think a lot of it has to do with what you're expecting out of online dating. I was a person who liked to date, and found fun experiences even in disastrous dates. That approach often leads to lots of dates with people with the same mindset.