Attraction is fairly irrational and subjective, it's also fairly random. Not everybody is everywhere all the time, so there's a "right place, right time" chance

Attraction is fairly irrational and subjective, it's also fairly random. Not everybody is everywhere all the time, so there's a "right place, right time" chance aspect to it. Now, if you're talking about attracting a particular individual you've chosen to pursue, well then things get a bit more difficult.