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I started studying ballet at the age of three and continued through high school. I eventually stopped to pursue other sports and academic interests, but I grew
by pdxandi 11y ago
I started studying ballet at the age of three and continued through high school. I eventually stopped to pursue other sports and academic interests, but I grew up rather alone as a young boy with an immense appreciation for — borderline obsession with — Mikhail Baryshnikov.
I vividly remember sharing in elementary school that Baryshnikov was my idol, while others talked of Michael Jordan and Bo Jackson, but it was usually just a source of ridicule, which I was used to. I'm in my thirties now and have always felt saddened by not having the chance to watch him perform as he retired about the age I started appreciating the greats in ballet. I ultimately married a (now retired) ballet dancer and we share the love for the art, though she more closely follows the female performers, understandably.
I have to share that I always felt a bit embittered when friends who watched Sex and the City would talk about his character because they never knew who he really was – one of the greatest male ballet dancers to walk this earth. I will say, though, that I got a kick out of getting a chance to tell them. As an adult, my former life as a dancer is far more appreciated, especially when we'd go out to a club, and most certainly after I met my wife.
I'm really excited to hear about this performance and I want to thank you for sharing. I will find a way to go, just to see him in the flesh.
- gliese1337 11y agoOne of my nephews started ballet (I think he was 6 at the time), but gave it up after only about a year. I was a bit disappointed- male ballet dancers are seriously impressive guys!- but he still likes dance, so that's something. I always like finding things like this that help validate those interests, to work against the negative stereotypes of male dancers that pervade most American youth culture.