While I don't have a child diagnosed with ADHD myself, I would definitely start by reading Thom Hartmann's books about the subject: https://en.wikipedia.org/wi

While I don't have a child diagnosed with ADHD myself, I would definitely start by reading Thom Hartmann's books about the subject: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thom_Hartmann#Attention_deficit_hyperactivity_disorder https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thom_Hartmann#Attention_defici... Next I would probably seek to address any vitamin and mineral deficiencies, notably vitamin D, vitamin B and magnesium. As for upbringing, I firmly believe you should seek to minimize anything that explicitly or implicitly can inflict guilt in your child. A good friend of mine has a wonderful son who is diagnosed with ADHD, and often the son would sit down and say to himself “Why can't I ever do anything right?” — and in his case I'd say that the guilt and self-loathing were a bigger problem [for the boy] than the ADHD. I'm afraid that's all I can contribute with, but I wish you all the best.