The part you're missing is what you bring to the table? Why would an experienced programmer choose to spend their time helping you? It's obvious what's in it fo

The part you're missing is what you bring to the table? Why would an experienced programmer choose to spend their time helping you? It's obvious what's in it for you, but what about the other side? I've mentored a lot of people. And I'll be honest - most people I've mentored eventually stop contributing to the relationship once they get what they want out of things, be it a new job, opportunity, etc. So now I coach, and I charge money for it. So ask yourself, why would someone want to invest their time, which is their most valuable commodity, in helping you reach your goals? If you network, and find the right person, you may discover exactly what that is. But if you're just looking for someone to give you guidance and advice, consider paying a coach. :) However, if you want to get over the awkward factor, try "Hey, I have always wanted to know more about [something they know about.]. Could I pick your brain over a beer/coffee?" It's kinda like dating. Worst thing that can happen is they say no. And the answer is always no unless you ask.