I fail to see how the subject of the sentence has any relevance to how offensive it is, if it indeed contains disparaging remarks. If I wrote in a blog post >

I fail to see how the subject of the sentence has any relevance to how offensive it is, if it indeed contains disparaging remarks. If I wrote in a blog post > I stopped being a stupid ni _ _ er and smartened up any well adjusted person would be offended by that statement. Even though I was referring to myself.