Moreover, they were shamed for things the writer assumed about their evidence, while dismissing the actual stated evidence as implausible. There is some good a

Moreover, they were shamed for things the writer assumed about their evidence, while dismissing the actual stated evidence as implausible. There is some good advice here: Consider carefully whether your belief that they're gay isn't based on homophobic assumptions. But rather than frame it like that, they are instead assumed to have already made these assumptions, and berated for them.