Can you tell how much did she take off the job to raise her kids? How many years we're talking about here and was she able to stay up to date with the latest d

Can you tell how much did she take off the job to raise her kids? How many years we're talking about here and was she able to stay up to date with the latest developments and trends in her profession or industry? Also, did she feel really "dismissed" after sharing this piece of info at interviews or just "disqualified" because "dismissed" is a strong word and entails humiliation and lack of respect unlike the other one?