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What a very touching and poignant story. I dated a girl in high school who was adopted as a baby from a Russian orphanage by an American family. She explained
by carlodelmundo 11y ago
What a very touching and poignant story.
I dated a girl in high school who was adopted as a baby from a Russian orphanage by an American family. She explained some difficulties with adjusting with non-biological parents: the adoptee cannot help but feel like an impostor.
Adopted as babies, I suppose in some ways it’s easier to transition into a new family. Babies typically do not remember much about their biological parents at such young ages.
A theme in her life was to meet and reconnect with her biological parents. After playing “private eye,” she was able to track down her biological mother and her now half-sister. She and her biological parents keep in touch, but the true heroes here are the adopting parents (like the Esparzas). Without them, who knows what would have happened.
- kiiski 11y agoOne should of course keep in mind that stories like that give a very biased view of the life of adopted children. The stories are invariably about adopted children wanting to find their "real" parents, because that's the only way to turn beign an adopted child into a story. You never hear about the ones that just live their life like anyone else, never giving much thought to who gave birth to them. I imagine the latter group is the majority.