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While I think you can fall in love with anyone, to actually stay in love you'll need to follow the concepts found in books like "The Five Love Languages" and "H

by pcunite 11y ago

While I think you can fall in love with anyone, to actually stay in love you'll need to follow the concepts found in books like "The Five Love Languages" and "His Needs, Her Needs".

zyrthofar 11y ago
I love "The Five Love Languages". It helped me understand why my past relationships had failed, that neither them nor me were at fault. We just didn't speak the other's language.
- ourmandave 11y ago
  Strange that I finished reading your comment and was thinking you had exactly 5 past relationships that didn't work out. Edit: Down votes for an observation about myself? Whatev...
  - grayclhn 11y ago
    Yep. HN is a discussion forum, not a diary.
  - dang 11y ago
    It's likely because the comment was unsubstantive. Please don't complain about downvotes in HN comments: https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
- paublyrne 11y ago
  I was in a relationship with a Spanish native speaker and had the same problem.