I can't wrap my head around why you would stay there. If you moved to Seattle, for example, you'd maybe make $75K less, but you'd be able to buy a house, have

I can't wrap my head around why you would stay there. If you moved to Seattle, for example, you'd maybe make $75K less, but you'd be able to buy a house, have a family, and pay off your debts, while probably doing the same work you're already doing.