> I see a lot of ways in which those people could change their life to be more aligned with what they claim they want ... yet they don't, and I don't really und

> I see a lot of ways in which those people could change their life to be more aligned with what they claim they want ... yet they don't, and I don't really understand why I am this way, and I'm doing my best to work to realign my priorities to really make the most of the remaining dots. Force of habit makes it very easy to fall into a "holding pattern", and quite hard to break out of. I appreciate the perspective of looking at those remaining dots as opportunity.