I never said 'pursue belonging.' One can choose to not pursue an already existing feeling of belonging, as is evidently the case with many bullied geeks. But t

I never said 'pursue belonging.' One can choose to not pursue an already existing feeling of belonging, as is evidently the case with many bullied geeks. But that doesn't contradict the fact that all humans harbour feelings of belonging (and selfism, etc.) in their bosom. It is human (animal) nature after all. There actually are quite a few hints about this subject in this essay by a nerd: https://medium.com/@maradydd/when-nerds-collide-31895b01e68c https://medium.com/@maradydd/when-nerds-collide-31895b01e68c