I often make a list of things I want to talk about in my head, before making a phone call; often I also think of a nice introduction and phrase the first questi

I often make a list of things I want to talk about in my head, before making a phone call; often I also think of a nice introduction and phrase the first question - after that it just gets easier. Singing or making music, especially jam sessions, helps a lot in finding the right rhythm in speaking.