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Planning social engagements with friends. I can easily see who is going, let organisers and everyone else know if they want to that I may not make it, as well a
by Mandatum 11y ago
Planning social engagements with friends. I can easily see who is going, let organisers and everyone else know if they want to that I may not make it, as well as see if there are other engagements that I've already agreed to go to.
I could do this with email and calendars, but I don't know 95% of my friend's email addresses. We talk over SMS and Facebook Messenger. If I wanted to find another one of my friend's I just search for their name, and if they have privacy settings set to only allow friends of friends to search for me - that's OK too!
I don't have to ask a friend for their email address, or their phone number and then ask that person for their email address. I don't have to phone or SMS people to see if they want to come, and I have an easy way to track it.
Sure, we all got along fine before social media. But Facebook has made planning social events ridiculously easy.
I haven't posted on my wall since 2013 and none of my information like age, email, phone number, etc is public. Sure Facebook has access to all sorts of conversations I've had over the years, but so do my local ISP's and data centres.
For anything that I'd truly like to keep private, I use PGP, OTR or chat in person.
- gcb0 11y agothe non naive way to look at this is that you and your friends gave up a little freedom (using open, standard and interoperative ways to communicate) for a little convenience (proprietary controlled communication medium)
- rimantas 11y agoHow do they give up that freedom? Did they sign some agreement with FB never ever use any other forms of communication / events coordination? No, they did not. Can we just cut this kind of crap? Facebook or any other social sites did not take away any freedoms from anyone.
- wolfgke 11y ago> Facebook or any other social sites did not take away any freedoms from anyone. The freedom from data being stored about the respective persons?
- orbifold 11y agoMeetings I have with my friends are either planned over email, or via something that is specifically designed to pick a date, like http://doodle.com/ http://doodle.com/. The network effect works both ways, I was one of the few people initially who didn't adopt facebook, so anything that involved me had to be communicated over mail.