You are welcome. The fact that you are seeing signs of upward mobility at your current gig along with your wife's career suggest even more that you should stay

You are welcome. The fact that you are seeing signs of upward mobility at your current gig along with your wife's career suggest even more that you should stay the course. In 5 years - after you have been a director for 3 or 4 years and growing in proven ability to manage there should be even more opportunities to transition to a tech company with the larger scale challenges. Though one issue with getting promoted is whether you can keep your technical edge even while adding the managerial skill-set. Take joy that you are faced with choosing the "best" path among multiple good paths. All the best to you and your family as you decide.