The reason I brought it up is because of the irony of their demands. Most women want men who have it all figured out (aka grown up men) but themselves don't re

The reason I brought it up is because of the irony of their demands. Most women want men who have it all figured out (aka grown up men) but themselves don't realize how imperfect they are. They'd rather spend hours on pinterest looking at hair ties of different colors than on something that gets their student loans out, career planning, family planning etc. So many women are vapid but want a guy who makes six figures, is six feet tall, knows how to build a car from ground up and can has some cool artistic side and yet can fight drug overlords....I mean...these are such divergent qualities and skills...it's pretty funny when one hears it out loud. If they expect an amazing guy with everything figured out (aka worked his socks off his entire life exploring different things and learning how to deal with shit), they better be amazing too. EDIT: To answer you: I agree...so many men who don't take care of themselves want a hot supermodel with a degree in physics. It's just so divergent. Many men suffer from the same dichotomy.