Yeah, it is a sausagefest, but honestly, it's not terrible. Be outgoing. Don't try and argue with non-techies about Node vs Rails. Leave tech at work. Don't mak

Yeah, it is a sausagefest, but honestly, it's not terrible. Be outgoing. Don't try and argue with non-techies about Node vs Rails. Leave tech at work. Don't make it your entire life, and you'll do fine. It's not that dire. I moved here single. I dated a lot. I'm now married. I'm by no means a player. I live in a more popular area of SF where young people live and go out all nights of the week. Tech people are not at a disadvantage. Don't believe the (bad) hype and play into stereotypes. If you're young, fabulous, doing well financially, but striking out with dates, don't blame it on your job or location. Dating is a contact sport. The more contacts you make, the better off you are.