> I also don't define people as "winners" or "losers" depending on whether they get cool jobs. Normally I don't either, but in my post above I was using it as

> I also don't define people as "winners" or "losers" depending on whether they get cool jobs. Normally I don't either, but in my post above I was using it as a shorthand. You can't win them all, and you probably won't lose them all, but there might be someone out there who does.