By no means should anyone ever feel required to divulge them. If you are the private about yourself and your things, then thats completely fine. Maybe you want

By no means should anyone ever feel required to divulge them. If you are the private about yourself and your things, then thats completely fine. Maybe you want to quit in a year to go off the grid or something. Thats perfectly fine. But if someone is interested and you think the person wants to know and help out, maybe you tell them 2 months prior instead of 2 weeks. Thats still a big gain.