I rarely cook to win :). You play chess to win and losing is stressful and unpleasant. So you train more to increase your chances of winning. I still enjoy pl

I rarely cook to win :). You play chess to win and losing is stressful and unpleasant. So you train more to increase your chances of winning. I still enjoy playing just for fun, but after a couple of "fun" games, the competitive side kicks in and it stops being fun and becomes a goal.