Killing unarmed people is orthogonal to masculinity. In general, I think more sympathy with these mass murderers, from those not directly affected, would be a

Killing unarmed people is orthogonal to masculinity. In general, I think more sympathy with these mass murderers, from those not directly affected, would be a better idea than labeling them as "evil". While I would not make the same decisions, it's important to realize that the refusal to understand a person's POV contributes towards isolation. That's an important component we don't recognize.