Citations, please. I've grown up and lived in many cultures. Manners change. Abuse does not. Invoking cultural relativism is not going to work here. Let me exp

Citations, please. I've grown up and lived in many cultures. Manners change. Abuse does not. Invoking cultural relativism is not going to work here. Let me explain: abuse is about identifying a boundary and then crossing it, deliberately, and repeatedly, to gain control over another person. The boundaries shift from person to person and culture to culture. Yet it always the same dynamic, and you can see it, and you can stop it.