You seem to be arguing from a premise that disagrees with the grand-parent's comment: Grandparent: "Most times such people take offense it is not about feeling

You seem to be arguing from a premise that disagrees with the grand-parent's comment: Grandparent: "Most times such people take offense it is not about feeling uncomfortable, but rather feeling unsafe." You: "very explicit discussions of rape law can be emotionally taxing." Why did you reply to parent? You should tell grandparent poster they're wrong. Otherwise you're just giving parent poster the impression they're in disagreement with a viewpoint that uses rhetorical shuffle and impossible to pin down.