I am, but only because there's no actual evidence that it was racially-motivated, beyond the feelings of the offended. It smacks to me of, going back to my ner

I am, but only because there's no actual evidence that it was racially-motivated, beyond the feelings of the offended. It smacks to me of, going back to my nerd example, blaming factors outside of my own social ineptitude for not being included for social event X.