I see your point now, not disagreeing either. Meant adult as a contrast to toddlers (whom feelings and sense of security we do care about, for good reasons) an

I see your point now, not disagreeing either. Meant adult as a contrast to toddlers (whom feelings and sense of security we do care about, for good reasons) and as a status that you target, grow into and nurture, especially more at the university (and hopefully after as well).