Agreed, that is why I said I wasn't disagreeing with the OP. My concern is that silly things which people do, like say complaining about being made to feel gui

Agreed, that is why I said I wasn't disagreeing with the OP. My concern is that silly things which people do, like say complaining about being made to feel guilty, will be used to paint safe spaces as 'silly' or 'unnecessary' when in fact safe spaces provide a very valuable function.