simply owning a recently-purchased house in an affected real estate market could have caused that. if you couldn't cover mortgage due to job loss or a rate hik

simply owning a recently-purchased house in an affected real estate market could have caused that. if you couldn't cover mortgage due to job loss or a rate hike, you were forced out and lost the money. doubly so if you were also invested in financial markets. a lot of people lost a lot of money. meanwhile, parents' mortgage is from the 1980s or 1990s and easily affordable in today's money, even if their nominal market value takes a slump, the mortgage is easily covered and the rebound in values 3-4 years later will put you far ahead again. if you were smart enough to hold steady or even double-down when the financial markets were down, well then you're even richer today. it was essentially a transfer of wealth from one generation to well-positioned members of the previous generation, and of course bankers/traders. but it wasn't a conspiracy... some people are just better positioned for and better able to see a massive market shift like that. i personally lost some (not that much) money during that time, and my parents gained money. ultimately their money is my money so i'm fortunate in that regard, but the same exact thing happened to me. i did everything 'right', including saving and investing, and still got somewhat shafted personally due to a combination of extrinsic market forces and personal decisions.