What you say is true, but it needs better wording perhaps. Like 'closure' I see how it is a toxic saying that harms people. Did telling people their life is r

What you say is true, but it needs better wording perhaps. Like 'closure' I see how it is a toxic saying that harms people. Did telling people their life is ruined (and having that attitude) just because they had an affair publicised, contribute to the suicides, perhaps. Self fulfilling.