Walk away, and be thankful you're not (some part of) $10k in debt. The words "menial tasks" to me suggest you're not really seeing her contribution properly, a

Walk away, and be thankful you're not (some part of) $10k in debt. The words "menial tasks" to me suggest you're not really seeing her contribution properly, and as far as I can tell, all you did was give up some of your free time.